Interview by âD-Man,â CTF Inmate Correspondent
HALL OF FAME: (2 Down, 1 To Go)
âIf we divine a discrepancy between a manâs words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful.â
â Charles H. Cooley
As basic as it may seem, few people take the time to truly reflect on who they are and how they arrived there. The mind is usually focused on whatâs happening now or whatâs coming next. For many, looking back only invites thoughts of what should have beenâif things had worked out the way they were planned.
Over the past six months, weâve been doing the opposite. Weâve been looking back on the life of Cain. And I can tell you this: he has never once dwelled on what could have been if heâd made a different choice. Instead, he embraces his mistakes just as fully as his successes. Thatâs what allows him to find lessons in every turn life takes.
This week, he humbly agrees to take yet another deep dive into his past. With gratitude and appreciation, I pick up on New Yearâs Day and continue where we left off in Cainâs story.
Happy New Year, big guy.
âThanksâsame to you.â
So many people make promises to loved ones at the start of a new year. Do you make New Yearâs resolutions?
âMore like New Yearâs affirmations.
Number one: be there for my familyâemotionally and physically. Just be present.
Number two: get out and work. Help others and give back to the collective.â
Whatâs your favorite New Yearâs memory?
âItâs always spent with family. The ball drops, then the hugs that follow. I appreciate looking at the growth each yearâthe people on Earth, the beauty of life. Where itâs been. Where itâs at. And where itâs going.â
Those are words to live by. Iâm sure this year will be a hard one to forget.
(On New Yearâs Day, Cain worked out barefoot, in the rain, and went all out.)

A New Life Begins
Letâs get back to your story. Last week, you left a promotional trip in Asia to get home for a new baby. Pick it up right there. Are you at the hospital when Pacoâexcuse meâCain is born?
(With a huge grin) âYeah. Iâm in the room with Michelleâs mom when he comes.â
Whoâs in the waiting room?
âMy brother is with Coral.â
How did it go?
âGood. Coralâs birth took a lot longer. This one was quick. Michelle didnât get the epiduralâshe wanted to experience everything this time. Take the pain.â
What memory stands out most?
âSeeing him. He was perfect. I vividly remember Coral holding him for the first time and crying. Then watching my brother hold him. Those were special moments.â
Anything else from that day you want to share?
(Cain gauges my reaction before speaking.)
âWe kept the placenta.â
What?
(Got me.)
âWe had it dried and turned into pills. Iâll admitâI ate a couple. But they were really for Michelle, to help her recover and nurse.â
Iâve heard of thatâjust not dads eating it.
âYeah, we gave it a shot.â

Preparing for the Future
What did you do at home to prepare for Cain Jr.âs arrival?
âWe themed the baby shower around exploration. We forged airplane sheet metal into nursery dressers. We framed world maps. Everything was about exploration.â
Sounds like a sign of things to come. Possible world traveler there.

Hall of Fame Honors
Your home life is now a balancing act, and this year youâre inducted into the Hall of Fame at both KOFA High School and Arizona State University. Did you attend both ceremonies?
âI missed the one in Yuma, but I went to ASU.â
Were you the only inductee?

âNoâfour or five of us were inducted. Jackie Johnson from track was honored. She was a Yuma girlâwent to Yuma High. I remember hearing about her when I was in high school. She was a year younger than me.â
You called her a âCriminal.â
(Cain laughs.)
âThatâs their mascot.â
So⊠the Yuma High Criminals (a nod to Yumaâs history of being the home of a territorial prison)?

âYeah. I went to the wrong school. Just kidding.â
Who else was inducted?
âDerrick Rogersâfootball. He played defensive end on the team I watched as a kid. The team that beat Nebraska. Thatâs why I wanted to be a Sun Devil.â
Did you give a speech?
âI did.â
Prepared?
âNope. Shot it from the hip.â

I had a feeling it was short. Cain is a man of few wordsâit takes me hours to pull these stories out of him.
What does the honor mean to you?
âItâs huge. When I was competing, I never thought about something like that. I was just trying to do my bestâin class, where I felt insecure, and on the mat, where I felt comfortable. Iâm grateful for the opportunity, and now Iâm grateful that people appreciate what I did.â
Who told you first?
âEither Stith or Ortiz. I donât know how they knew, but they did. They called me before the school did. Then Don Bocchi, the Senior Associate Athletic Director, reached out officially. He also presented the awardsâhe runs the whole event every year and does a great job (Don has since retired in 2021).â

So thatâs two Hall of Fames down⊠one to go.
UFC Hall of Fame? Weâll save that for another episode.
This is 2018. Youâre still not fighting, but your back is improving?
âYeah. Iâm back at the gym. Itâs coming along.â
A Journey to Senegal
You get invited to Senegal through the Olympic Channel. Whatâs the purpose?
âThey wanted me to interview Senegalese wrestlers. They practice a different style.â

How different?
âThe art is called Laamb, and itâs very ceremonial. Almost every man in the community does it. Secondâitâs first takedown wins, like sumo. Thirdâyou can punch. Very different from freestyle or Greco.â
Did you get to fuck anyone up?
(Cain laughs.)
âNo. I was there to tell their stories.â
What stood out?
âThe culture was incredibly health-focused. They train on the beachâsame sand they fight on in arenas.â

Where exactly?
âDakar. The entire beach is dedicated to wrestling. Rusted workout equipment everywhere. During the day, it looks abandoned. Then by midday, the boys show up. By four or five, the beach comes alive. Everyone is trainingâmen, boysâevery single day. It was incredible.â
Did you attend a competition?
âYes. The ceremony was unbelievable. Fighters are blessed by shamans, oiled, powdered, led in by their clans with drums and chants.â
Like walkout music?
âExactlyâjust tribal. You can tell it means everything to them.â
Anyone UFC-ready?
âNot yet. Their stand-up was rough, and they could use some work on their wrestling as well. But with their passion? You could build champions.â

Any other memories?
âI accidentally brought a THC oil pen. My translator kept asking, âWhat is dis stuff, man?â Everyone chewed licorice rootâwalked around with sticks in their mouths. I brought some home. Another thing is that everyone there wears plastic sandalsâjelly ones. I bought pairs for my family.â
You traveled with Thomas âNo Masâ Diagne from AKA.
âYeahâheâs Senegalese. We had a blast. And then when I came home, I took a DNA test from ancestry.com, and found out that Iâm 2% Senegalese.â
âNo shit.â
Did that make it hit harder?
âIt did. It reminded me of Mexico City. Differentâbut familiar.â
Closing
Anything else?
âNope.â
With that, we wrap this episode.
Next week, weâll talk about Cainâs final fight in the cageâlooking forward while honoring what the past has shown us.
I challenge anyone who hasnât read all the Sundays with Cain episodes to go back and start from the beginning. The writing has grown. Cain has opened up more. Itâs a human story we can all relate to.
Weâve got a new reader tooâmy brother.
Happy birthday, Josh.
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